I watched everyone in blogosphere flaunting their bras over the last couple of years – I was seriously impressed at the skills and wanted to try my hand at this handmade lingerie thing too. However I was either pregnant, breastfeeding or too fucking tired to attempt anything so complicated.
Once the baby started sleeping at night I began to be intimidated by the whole bra thing and kept making excuses why I wasn’t joining the handmade bra party.
Then Mr King (the lovely man) got me the Madalynne Simplicity Bra sewing pattern for Christmas- 8229.
Running out of excuses!
And yet it’s still taken me to April to attempt making a bra!
Shopping for bra bits
Reading the list of notions on the back of the pattern is scary. I could have gone to a bricks and mortar shop but I had a feeling there wouldn’t be much choice in Edinburgh. Instead I went looking for a kit – I got a champagne lace kit from a lovely Canadian etsy seller which was surprisingly reasonable. I think I paid about £16 which I’d consider a relatively modest price for a bra.
Sizing and Sister sizes
In UK shops I’m a 34F – I got measured in Bravissimo a few years ago and the sales lady did her best not to snicker at the bra I was wearing. Apparently I was one of those people who had been wearing completely the wrong size – I think I was wearing a 38DD that day and she all but twanged my bra straps to demonstrate how stupidly loose the back band was on me.
(If you think you might be wearing the wrong size have a look on Mumsnet for the bra intervention thread – it’s flipping awesome)
So 8229 only goes up to a DD fitting but she does have a tutorial on how to use sister sizes to grade up or down. Using this sister sizing chart I was going to use the 38DD pattern. Apparently I’d just have to reduce the back band a bit.
Sewing the bra
This is the bit I was massively intimidated about but was hopeful it would be OK since there is a Sewalong tutorial on YouTube as well as clear simplicity instructions. It turns out though that the video does things in a different order than the pattern instructions- so you either need to follow one or the other and not just jump between the 2 when you need a little extra help (aaaaaaaaaa – internal scream of frustration!!!).
Despite this I appear to have made a totally badass amazing looking bra.
I felt like Harry Potter when he discovers he’s a wizard! I totally made a bra on my first attempt ever and it looks great!!
Until I tried it on.
It doesn’t fit.
In fact it fits so badly I get 4-boobs syndrome when I wear it. The cups cut so tightly across my boobs there is massive overspill over the top. Also weirdly the space between the cups is massive so I had to do weird scooping to push my boobs to the side to try and fit it. Turns out I’d done the channelling on the inside of the cup rather than the outside. It wouldn’t have fixed the cup size issue (4mm more fabric would not solve this!) but might have addressed the giant gap between my boobs.
I’m afraid I went in the huff at this point and stopped speaking to anyone. It was that or make a primordial scream-like noise when I opened my mouth. I really wish I had wine at this point because every fuck up is more manageable with wine.
Next steps
But a new day dawned and I woke up determined. It turns out the sewing aspect of a bra is pretty straight forward and enjoyable. It’s the fitting thing I need to get right.
So I’ve used my seam ripper and attempted to salvage some of the materials from my Harry Potter Bra. I’ve also printed out the Maya bra pattern that is recommended on the Curvy sewing collective review here.
Next stop is another attempt at a bra. This time I’m going prepared with wine!
What a shame it didn’t fit, it looks great. Hope you get the bra making sorted. I’ve got a kit and a bra making book but been procrastinating for 15 months now !
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I totally understand the procrastination! Now that I’ve realised the sewing bit is the easy bit I’m definitely more motivated. Good luck!
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Looks good even if it doesn’t fit. It’s the fitting that puts me off too but I’m going to go in and do it too one day.
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Do it do it do it!
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It looks lovely – shame about the fit. But I’m sure you’ll look back on it more philosophically with the aid of wine and realise how much you’ve learnt (well yes in theory, mistakes are still damn annoying!) I was given a bra kit for Christmas – but mine is still in the box. Seems you have more courage than me!
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See it took me ages to get my dresses to fit properly so I should be a bit easier on myself about this one.
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Proud of you. First for making a bra and it looks professional. And secondly you didn’t throw it away and said forget it.
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It’s amazing how motivated one can be a week before payday when you’re skint!
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That is true. I once covered a chair from a yard sale with an old sheet. No money, gotta get creative.
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You did a great job on the bra, it’s a pity you were let down by the pattern. I’ve looked at that pattern and the reviews, but have serious reservations its drafting, especially for the larger sizes. And most reviews mentioned the discrepancies between the printed and video instructions. Then again, most who have made the plunge into bra making have said you will not get the fit right on the first attempt, and not to be discouraged if it takes 3-4 tries.
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You know I feel like I read plenty reviews but clearly I didn’t read the right reviews! Such is life. Anyway onwards and updwards
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I don’t think anyone makes a greta fitting bra first time, but persistence will pay off!
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Thanks Toya – here’s hoping!
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But it was finished so nicely! Oh well – the next one will fit because you have wine!
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You did a wonderful job: the finished bra looks amazing. Shame it didn’t fit. It’s probably one of the difficult things to make a bra. Looking at your first make you’ll get there and having a perfect bra after another attempt.
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Thank you! I’m Halfway through attempt 2 and it’s already looking promising!
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Well done for giving it ago. Bras are on my make nine list as I have made almost every item in my wardrobe accept for underwear but I’m a little intimidated by it as fit is not my forté. I think indi patterns tend to give better fit so that might be the way to go. Good luck salvaging harry Potter #2
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What a shame, at least you know you can make a decent looking creation though!! Hope you get it to work out!!
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Oh god, I remember months and more fucking months of trying to get bra fitting right…The Harriet bra by cloth habit has a great size range, it’s the closest I’ve gotten to my 30F size. The Maya bra unfortunately just didn’t work for me.
Best of luck!
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Good advice thanks- it’s payday Thursday and I’d already looked at the harriet bra but wasn’t sure how much coverage there was for the big of boobage
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Yeah, I made my usual size and it’s almost perfect. So I’d say it’s a pretty great starting point.
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